Friday, June 15, 2007

Dating Mistakes

Dating is not a dreamland as you expect. The unpredictable natures of personalities and small issues are always there a waiting you for trouble. No one can be so perfect. Nevertheless, reducing the mistakes is very important if you are pursuing dating as a serious option for finding your right partner. The mistakes may be small or negligible but it can harm your chance for successful dating. Some of your actions might hurt the partner even though you are doing it unintentionally.

Some of the common mistakes committed by people during dating are like these. Guys please stop praising some other woman’s beauty in front of your dating partner. It will not be as cool as you think to tell a woman that she is becoming chubby while dating.As women are conscious about gaining weight and hence they will feel bad. Even if you do not like the partner to be hopping around beauty partners for beauty treatments, do not mind to tell her. Don’t tell the girl that her cooking is disgusting or compare her culinary skills with somebody you know. Please don’t invite your partner to sports and games events if she is not interested in those shiffs.

Also, be careful while commenting about her dresses and its fashion. Some might not like criticism from your part. Also, do not dare to talk about your physical fantasies with your dating partner. Another thing woman do not like is avoidance from your part. Never avoid a call from your partner even if you are busy. Her issues may be silly, but if you do not respond or hang up the call, it will send wrong signal across the board. Also, do not have bad look at other girls while you are on date, because it will certainly make a bad impression. Do not stare at her body parts; it is always good to talk while watching her eyes.

Women also find themselves in trouble by committing silly mistakes. Never think that you have found your Mr. Right after two exciting dates. Most of the times it may be infatuation due to your fantasies after having watched dream dating in movies or soap operas. Before understanding, the person and finding rapport with him do not rush for a relation. If you find the response from your dating, partner a bit lukewarm. Wait to these whether he changes a bit and share the same feeling as you do. Otherwise, move on.

It does not matter that your tasks or ambitions are in opposite direction. Find out the things that you have in common. Rather than finding difference in silly things look out for his life ambitions, attitude so on and find out whether you can get together well as opposite characters can also make good partners. Please keep your expectations about Mr. Perfect down to reliable and realistic levels. For the sake of a relation, do not commit to your partner. You might look for security or some other reason but if you feel, the partner is not ideal then you have to cross check before arriving at a decision. Never be over aggressive while during dating as you do in office. It is more of a complex that should avoid. So avoid committing silly mistakes and enjoy the dating, and you will certainly find your dream partner.

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